Fairytales don't teach children that dragon exists,
Children already know that dragons exist. Fairy tales teach children the dragons can be killed.
Wednesday, August 27, 2008 5:51 PM
what we tend to plan,
Life is too short to spend our time doing what we want to do.
Yah, they say if we carefully plan, we will ended up still able to do it. Ya, you will eventually. But there are many circumstances in life you have to go through and issue that unables you to just do it.
Sofia and I had a very interesting chat about our future this morning. How both of us wants a big and young family. How both of us wants a playground that is not in Singapore. Not forgetting, how much I want to retire in Venice.*haha*
Both of us do have aims to get a master degree, but neither know, what course do we want to pursue. Sofia gave me the idea of maybe receiving a degree in finance and to be rich - able to take care of my finance well. SO people get at least a*DEGREE in FINANCE.*
Sofia want to travel all around the world whereas for me I want to backpack all over Europe. We would definitely want to do this at a young age, but can tell me how. Sofia and I both want a young and big family, then tell me how to go travel if got many children. We planned but the plan does not seem to work.*big dreams seem so real* Next is very funny one leh. We discussed of having a HUSBAND. See a lady wants a man[not a guy] who is stable[financial wise] and who have dreams as big as hers. How can? We definitely want someone who is smarter than us girls right. But now days the statistic have shown us that the females are growing increasingly smarter than the males.Then it very hard to find that someone that we most preferably want, right.*GUYS GROW UP*onnir fits my criteria leh.. MEN-they can be so complacent sometimes.
Then me and Sofia think, think, and think some more. We worry too much. But still about our future of coz wan neh.. We also think la if, we were to study far and still ended up being a housewife and a care taker for 5 souls[or more], then why are we wasting our time and money pursuing our education? However, I now feel that education is just something to fall back on when something goes wrong. 'CHOY' arh to say. *touch wood*
But then I don't want to worry so much until the O'levels are finish la.
Someone always say to me- * always go with the flow* oh ya, that is the tiny voice in my head who constantly keep me in a ''future secure'' mood.
